Igave birth to three children and one can can and cook very well . My daughter thinks she can but she can’t. I know good food . Testamanet as to hoe badly her MIL cooks She once challenged me to a Christmas cook off and she lost …more reasons why she hates me. I worked two to three jobs a week . HER MIL , stay at home could not cook at all and could not find love for her children. HE desperately wanted her approval and went to great lengths to it . Hope it was worth it
While this virus is swiftly seeping the country a resident in my county ha conducted this virus or never washes his hands , like my husband or his mother .
I was a pre-med student and wa first in my class. I have always been held by wash your damn hands and understanding ryour nails . God help me but my MIL used to bake cookies for my children and place them on uncleaned styrofoam , which held raw raw meat ….GROSS ME OUT
People like these spread diseases ..a sneeze, a cough …prooduce has always been vulnerable to Ecoli …workers go the bathroom without hand washing. I DON;T EVEN WISH TO EAT ANYTHING MADE BY MY SPOUSE …..Maybe we should all be reading up on sterilization techniques . I aced that class ..No one has been ever been made ill by a meal I cooked
It is never wise to cripple to cook, shopper, refinisher , doer . What happens when you are wed to an individual who watches cooking shows frequently but can’t actually cook. So it is that or take out .
Fortunately as a child , I spent a plentitude of time with Godmother Nettie , who was in my opinion , the cook of all cooks …sorry Emiral, Rachel etc. My cousin , who passed several years ago, hasd a restaurant In Clearwater Florida , name DTradewinds , RIP TOMMY
Since beinag A dv victim with limited arm or leg use I haven’t really been able to cook that much. I used to spend three days doing a family Christmas …at least three veggies, 15 pounds of mashed and 5 pounds of baked potatoes with cinanimon and apples ….freash cranberry sauce , Ham Turkey , cornbread stuffing with apples , pears celery and raisins..at least 7 homemade deserts including Mississippi mud pies and cranberry pie ( to name a few ) I had a very demanding job but I too those day s off for the holidays asa I entertained 30-40 people and everything was made from scratch .
I would like to note that my son @Hungry and Fit has by far cooked and served the best meals that I have had in years .
A few years weeks ago he was cooing vegan ravioli cand said oka..meke the ravioli and then we will salute it with spices, sautéed arugula and added spices and raw red onion.e said this is like a restaurant meal …no crap …NEVER CrIPPLE the one who can do it all…Family Favorite recipe …Lentils and franks …finger down throat . I never had it ..thank God …This was the metamorphasis of Tucci Meals…EEEEKKKKS GROSS
You can be haunted in , oh so many ways , Domestic Abuse , Mistakes that you made in trying to provide a future for your children when you out and working , way too many hours …27 years of Saturday’s is a small example. I should have been there . Trying to give my children the best I could in life ( the opportunities that I did not have ) I wanted them to have it all and reach for the stars ….How many times did they call me about job advice and I said why would anyone hire anyone but you ?
I always referred to myself as the drop and run mother…my kids needed and there I was , no matter the pain. I recently saw a new PT , who looking at my MRI’s simply stated “your spine is trashed ” Odd for a 40+ year athlete , So I don’t sleep at night because I am haunted by thoughts . My children have largely removed themselves from my life …..the fault lies on both sides …things said to me over which I have bitten my tongue , numerous times. I have one child and his spouse who are so well suited that it blows me away , because I do not believe that is the norm and I bless them both C&A for fending each other . YOU are beyond blessed that you found each other
I am haunted by many things , especially my poor choices in life as it is ending ….I have so many flashbacks of being in Norristown , PA …walking and memories surface ..making tea and much the same …lying and watching TV with my granddaughter (Valentine’s Day 2013) Drove to babysit as I was renting a room and a car just flew in front of me and hit a pole ….I had no response. She laughed at me and said you are not a babysitter , you are my Gammi . I have not seen her in over three years and I know well before that that gifts I gave my grandkids were trashed . Personally, I have every birthday card since I was 7 . People mean a lot to me <3. I am known for my honesty , kindness and for just being sweet .
Pursued 20 years as a model including a Playboy Centerfold I have wed the biggest losers of loser’s abusive…my Drs have reported this ..one should be in prison .
I have made many mistakes in my life . I so wish to get to PA for closure or to move there . Loved my Lils more than anything and she loved me . I never want her to feel hurt and abandoned . I will never forget my daughter Thanksgiving Day telling me that my granddaughter had another grandmother she saw once a year that she loved as much as she loved me , which was a stab to the heart because it was not true. My daughter once stated “We have a mean family” , which perplexed me because I am not known as being mean .
When my mom had her last coherent conversation with me …she said “you deserved better in life because you were the kind and special one ”
what does Kindness , love and specialty earn you ..nada..When my mom passed away two years ago my granddaughter clung to me and said my other grandparents are nothing like you . I live in a world where my heart breaks daily and where I am haunted by memories that were good …my Lills . always there when needed even when it was a backward compliment ..Foster child ..we don’t need you but…..
Millenial kids pretty much blow it …but for one and Karma has a major way of biting you in your ass. I still love my children , although 2/3 treat me like I am garbage
Raise your hand , if you are an idiot like me and thought that YELP was actually a two sided street where individuals went to search out good Drs, restaurants , massage therapist’s etc so you can find the best service in your area
I myself , own a small ETSY shop Gammiannes , I have 215 review’s ..two are one star , one , I believe is four stars , and the rest are five stars . I have never attempted to remove a low review by any means, although I have responded to the concerns addressed . SO that YELP is not customer orientated was a surprise but a useful surprise because this is now a useless site . A relative of mine has had numerous posts removed …guessing they were negative . I attempt to treat people we’ll. My shop has been closed due to injuries incurred by this esteemed Business owners
After 4 YELP hangups today from Yelp employees I was informed they had no CEO but they do and his name is #Eric Stoppleman which is so so sad. Apparently , to say I would boycott #YELP because posting reviews may be be removed just because I relied on it in seeking good businesses
Ran into a business last week and saved the convo . An individual removed a negative review for money . This would be called zero integrity . YELP did also advise me to obtain a lawyer with one of these vendors #TrueWellness who caused me serious personal and physical harm and damage . Four Yelp employees hung up on me when I called to ask why? This site does not provide any assistance to individuals looking for good places or providers . It is targeted to business owners and those reviews can be removed for financial gain Shout out to the FDA for not certifying this machine ..wish I had the name of it …Two kind to say ..wow this machine hurts like hell , I have neurological damage , you are not a DR . I did request paperwork but they won’t respond . This individual does hold a medical degree ..in fact he never heard of the Trigeminal nerve until I mentioned it . I was pre-med , worked in medical my entire career ..first in class despite missing 80% of my classes due to a problem pregnancy
Long story short don’t waste your time posting reviews on YELP unless they are positive and do check for credentials from anyone providing anything to you .
There are times you may struggle with Drinking alcoholic beverages even though you may not even like them . Apparently, this is a common concept amongst Battered Wives Syndrome Your children do not believe it ….why should they ? You rarely drank ..their father was a a drunk ..I remember those jokes which were not so much a joke to me .
so marry an alcoholic and you are well on your way
Lose what matters to you most due to resentment bitterness, injury
When I met my spouse and was informed that he wanted to date me …my response was ” I don’t date alcoholics ” which I have later amended to many a therapist …but apparently I will marry one …MY Drs know and have known for many years .
When you hit a certain age and all that matters to you is your children and grandchildren, downsizing etc but your spouse is into nothing but bars , depravity , gambling . ..do my children even know or care what I have done to stay safe???? I don’t think so..nor quite frankly do I think they care..maybe 1 of 3 …I think one of three .
I have three blood grandchildren ..only one knows me and we had tons of fun together and I miss her every day …she will soon forget me because children do. My daughter has issues I can’t even begin to address . That is not carte blanche to hurt your children . Children should never be hurt. Ironically , it was the father of a step grandchild who has been the kindest to me …
I assume these are terms like “How are you” and you say fine because do you really want to tell someone how much your life sucks ? That you have lost have lost everything of value? That you love your children but have been timeless told how much they hate you ?
When you were that nurturing mother who drop and run for yours but they don’t respond to Drs calls when they are listed as your next of kin ?
When it’s I will give you food and or money if you piss all over me or give me a blow ..thanks I would rather starve . When your children are too intelligent but too blind to see . I guess you take after your mother …sorry
IDK I don’t find it normal or amusing to have some one discuss joint suicide or hoarding your dead body ..Let’s face it no one care enough to check in on me …This is my reality