A) I was the mother who read and rocked and sang to my children before they even entered this world
B) My mother in law told me I was never to pick up my child . I did reply ” That’s not really how it works in my world
C) children require love and nurturing to flourish. I did my best ..working often two jobs ..65 hour weeks ..hey I do believe my kids always won school reading contest’s because I would come home after a ten hour day at the office and read to my sons.
D) As your children grow and age ..they distance themselves
E) They don’t recall all that you did ..drop and run no matter the pain or circumstances ..nor do they care
F) Raise one child child to be dependent who might actually care .
Admittedly , I was an over the top ( I love you ..I worry ) type of mom in a very bad relationship , which I consider my bad , because I knew better . I could read the signs ..Red Flags Waving .
You have no idea how things can alter in years to follow ..Brain washing …WTH …sheltered naive trusting Catholic school girl , prime for the picking ..Also an Empath . So yes I cry every single day ..
Like this:
Like Loading...
Related
Published by squanderedgifts
Once an adventurous , slightly mischievous ..always golden hearted child Fast forward 30+ years ..bitter and resentful bitter lady( I don't like it either ) ..formerly kind and accommodating ..still and will always cherish children ...Life is not quite the ride you expect so I would like to believe in destiny as opposed to I made incorrect choices ...because I had brains, beauty , came from a well bred New York society background family , a ridiculous skill set etc so how did I end up where I am??? At Birth ..you can be given all the "gifts " that you desire ,a s I was ..I am intelligent (generally) ...I can cook , bake , refinish furniture , manage a business , craft ..etc etc ..If you YOU look in the mirror and you do not see what others may ..and I do not believe this is an uncommon phenomenon ..most beautiful women whose demeanors I have observed have appeared to be abused ..this I can spot a mile away ..it never matters what some one else see's ..what matters is what you see..which may be skewed and may need lead you in an alternate direction ..please contact me I am here to help anyone..anytime
View all posts by squanderedgifts
Squandered Gifts 