A) I was the mother who read and rocked and sang to my children before they even entered this world
B) My mother in law told me I was never to pick up my child . I did reply ” That’s not really how it works in my world
C) children require love and nurturing to flourish. I did my best ..working often two jobs ..65 hour weeks ..hey I do believe my kids always won school reading contest’s because I would come home after a ten hour day at the office and read to my sons.
D) As your children grow and age ..they distance themselves
E) They don’t recall all that you did ..drop and run no matter the pain or circumstances ..nor do they care
F) Raise one child child to be dependent who might actually care .
Admittedly , I was an over the top ( I love you ..I worry ) type of mom in a very bad relationship , which I consider my bad , because I knew better . I could read the signs ..Red Flags Waving .
You have no idea how things can alter in years to follow ..Brain washing …WTH …sheltered naive trusting Catholic school girl , prime for the picking ..Also an Empath . So yes I cry every single day ..