Yes, PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) . the same affliction that my cousin was diagnosed with after being shot down over Vietnam , having his guts torn out , and receiving a Purple Heart Medal .
You can get this disease from marriage, if you are not cautious ..if you are too kind to step back and away when you know you should have ..when you believe that people can change (they rarely do) …
I will be writing a post at a future date regarding red flags and that you should avoid them , at all costs , because it may cost you all that you know.
You cannot be locked up and terrorized ,for over a decade ,without suffering some permanent affects…
If only the children understood ..yes ladies you may find them gravitating towards your abuser ..life is rarely fair
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Once an adventurous , slightly mischievous ..always golden hearted child Fast forward 30+ years ..bitter and resentful bitter lady( I don't like it either ) ..formerly kind and accommodating ..still and will always cherish children ...Life is not quite the ride you expect so I would like to believe in destiny as opposed to I made incorrect choices ...because I had brains, beauty , came from a well bred New York society background family , a ridiculous skill set etc so how did I end up where I am??? At Birth ..you can be given all the "gifts " that you desire ,a s I was ..I am intelligent (generally) ...I can cook , bake , refinish furniture , manage a business , craft ..etc etc ..If you YOU look in the mirror and you do not see what others may ..and I do not believe this is an uncommon phenomenon ..most beautiful women whose demeanors I have observed have appeared to be abused ..this I can spot a mile away ..it never matters what some one else see's ..what matters is what you see..which may be skewed and may need lead you in an alternate direction ..please contact me I am here to help anyone..anytime
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This is a joke but should matter . I have lost my family whom I cared deeply and fought for their entire lives …Just noted in PT notes that I have 70T loss of lowers and 40% loss of arm use. Guessing my kids think this a joke. They don’t even know when their mother is dying., or care .I was always there for them in their lives i. Thank you #WordPress for removing the comment by someone ( and if I can find out who they are …she is in jail)
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Agreed I was an athlete crippled by DV but these are intelligent manipulative people who beat the life out of you …physically…mentally …emotionallly broken
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